Turkey: A vacation in the resort of Marmaris was not perfect for us and here is why

My sister-in-law who with her husband accompanied us on our two week vacation fell in love with Turkey. As she wrote on her postcards home "Well I have to say that Turkey is a delight to me" A clever pun on the sweet treat consumed in Turkey and around the world namely Turkish Delight.

Looking back down the years, and through rose coloured glasses, Turkey was a great place to visit. It has stunning scenery, beaches and at the time of our visit our vacation the currency went a long way.

I guess the problem for me was that I was having hormone treatment for my endometriosis and was moody and depressed. We visited in the middle of June as that was the only time my sister-in-law could get leave from her work. This meant that the weather was hotter than hot. It was positively sizzling. Finally our resort was not really for us and accommodation was dire.

As someone who usually tries to get the best out of any vacation I just found oit hard to feel enthralled all of the time. This holiday had its good moments but more than once I actually wished that I was home. I never do that and this was the only holiday that left me with such a feeling.

Let me share with you then The Good, The Bad and The Ugly of our two week vacation to Marmaris, Turkey.

Turkey is a large country that straddles Europe and Asia. Take a look at the image to the right for its exact locaion on the globe.

Marmaris is in the south west of Turkey along with quite a few other resorts.

Turkey has some similarities to Greece, but both countries would be appalled that I say that. However, for a visitor both countries welcome tourists, offer similar fare and have lovely beaches. Turkey and Greece have not shared a happy coexistence though. At one time if your passport had been stamped from a visit to Turkey, it was doubtful if Greece would let you enter their country.

Greek Islands, such as Rhodes and Symi, are very close to the Turkish coastline. This means that day trippers will in effect swap a day in Rhodes for a day in Marmaris and vice versa.

We flew to Turkey from Humberside Airport in the UK. At the time this airport was even smaller than today and there was absolutely nothing to do as we waited for our flight.

Friends had already warned us that we would need to pay £10 each for a visa at the Turkish airport check-in. This was duly handed over but you do not receive a visa. However, the Turkish guard let us in. Hooray.

The airport was very modern and large. It was truly an international airport which we have not always found when travelling to countries around the Mediterranean.

The journey to the hotel was fairly unspectacular but I was struck by the rural beauty of Turkey. In my mind's eye I had envisaged sand and a barren wasteland. I am not sure why but I had. Instead I was faced with greenery, roadside Oleanders in full blossom and mountains or large hills.

Marmaris

We had almost picked Marmaris by sticking a pin in a holiday brochure. We all knew that we wanted to visit Turkey but that was the extent of our demands. Budget was also a consideration.

As we approached Marmaris it is was plain to see that although the area was still very beautiful it had been over commercialised. In order to please, especially the British, tourists. In doing so they had sucked Turkey out of this resort. Of course this would make it ideal for some British holiday makers. It did not for me.

Hotel Best

Had we foolishly thought that the name of this hotel suggested quality? Perhaps we had. Suffice to say it did not. Of course, some problems cannot be helped. The hotel staff were all warm and friendly and the small layout of the bar and swimming pool were fine.However, we had some problems.

As I came down after unpacking I moved a net curtain on the stairs, in order to appreciate the view. I received three hornet stings on my hand. Back to the room then for basic first aid from hubby. I always take my anti-histammine pills and after bite creams on holiday/ just in case. This first problem was just one of those things and I was determined it would not spoil my vacation.

The room was very basic. There was a carpet down which is unusual in hotel rooms in hot countries. It was fairly tatty but looked clean. It did make it hard to spot the bugs on a night though. We slept for two weeks with the light on all night. Hubby would sit for a long time before dropping of to sleep reading as he watched out for unwelcome visitors. His large boot was kept busy night after night after night. Cockroaches and many other horrible large bugs would run a riot in our room, and everyone elses I think also.

The hotel was in a good location, in that it was close to the amenities but far enough away so that you could get some sleep, bugs permitting. You will also need an insect repellant plug in order to keep the mosquitoes at bay. We had taken plenty of insect repellant in cream form and you do need to apply this each evening before going out.

Marmaris itself

Marmaris has a great waterfront and boat area which is lovely to stroll around. However, as we visited in early June and the temperature was often almost 40 degrees centigrade we had little energy to do so.

Along the edge of the water where there are bars, restaurants and shops you need to have nerves of steel. When we visited the saying of the day was "Asda Price". Young Turkish men would stand outside of their cafes and bars trying to entice you in to eat or drink. They would slap their back pocket and shout Asda price. The first once or twice it is funny; however this feeling does not last.

Each time you wander along here you will have to run the gauntlet of these guys. Arms around your shoulder, compliments and more are all used to win you in. This is even when you are walking with your husband or partner and are getting on a bit in years. Young, single people be aware.

Knowing where you want to eat that night will not help. You will still have to run this gauntlet unless you can find a short cut to your restaurant or cafe.

There are also tour salesmen along here and you will repeatedly hear someone shout, Turtle Beach? at you.

Here are the pros and cons of Marmaris in my opinion. Of course ,you must remember that what is a con to me, may be a pro to you.

Pros

• English is widely spoken
• Every type of facility is here.
• The beach is a lovely soft sand.

• Marmaris has a large bazaar which is a fascinating place to visit.

• Marmaris is in a great position for visiting Rhodes or other Turkish resorts such as Icmeler and Olu Deniz

• Everything was cheap

• Plenty of attractions and bars

Cons

• Overdeveloped
• Too commercial
• Traditional Turkey is hard to find here.
• The sea is a lovely colour but prone to seaweed.
• Too hot and too noisy and busy in high season.
• Too many other English tourists in high season.
• Almost like Blackpool with sun.
• Plenty of attractions and bars
• Kurdish staff in the hotel were not treat as well as other staff

Turkey has a rich history and various sculptures relate to this. Choose your destination wisely in order to enjoy traditional Turkey and its history.

Final thoughts.

One of my fond memories is sitting with my sister in law in the bazaar at Marmaris. She and I had decided to do a little tourist shopping. The young man, like all the other traders, expected us to barter. However, if we were prepared to sit on the low stools, drinking apple tea and have an English conversation with him the price would be good. This charming young guy really just wanted to learn what he could about the UK and our language. In the end the Turkish Delight we bought was so cheap he may as well have given it to us.

I guess it is in order to avoid bugs but the cleanliness in restaurants and cafes seems second no none. As you are eating any crumbs dropped on the table are instantly swept away by a waiter with a little brush. If you put a tiny piece of paper in the ashtray it is immediately emptied.

The local transport is the Dolmus. It is a cross between a taxi and a bus. It is a small mini van that does not set off until it is full. You are then given a fun but bumpy ride to your destination.

If you want to visit places in Turkey such as Pamukkale use the local traders. Their tours are cheaper.

Icmeler has more German tourists than English. It is within easy reach of Marmaris either by boat or Dolmus. If you are feeling active you could walk. It is developed but has a classier feel and is prettier.

You may see signs of the Turkish army and weapons as you travel around. Take care. You definitely would not want to spend any time in a Turkish jail.

A return visit?

Creating this hub has made me realise just how much fun we did have in Turkey. I would love to visit again. This time though I would visit in May or September as the weather would be cooler. I would also research the accommodation more and perhaps pay a higher price if the hotel was a better standard.

Oh and I would definitely not choose Marmaris as my destination. You, however, may love to.

For information about the less commerical side of Turkey check out Rose Mary's excellent Hub